It’s Time To Play the College WAITING GAME!!
February 17th, 2010
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by Scott Anderson · Filed Under: College Admissions · College Costs · College Selection · Financial Aid
The waiting game is the hardest part of the college financial and selection process. Everybody has to play this game. But if you cut this game short, you could lose a lot of money and spend more on college than you need.
During the fall, students and parents are consumed with college admission applications. For many families, they longed for the day when the admissions applications would be over. Sometimes it took months to finish. Then when December and January rolled around, the financial applications started. Maybe yours only took a day. For a few unlucky contestants, days turned into weeks.
But now for most of you, the admissions applications are done, and the financial applications are history. So what’s the next step? Do you jump at that admissions offer from your student’s top choice? Do you take the school with the lower sticker price? What if you haven’t heard anything out of the schools yet? Have they forgot about you? What do you do now?
This is where the hardest part of the college selection process starts. It’s nerve-wracking. It’s frustrating. It’s going to play with your mind and make you feel like you don’t know what you are doing. It’s… waiting. Yes, waiting. The one thing that Americans are the worst at of any people on earth… waiting. Just think of it as a character building experience arranged for you by God Almighty. He always said that patience was a virtue. Now you get to prove it.
Colleges and universities need time in making these decisions. They’ve got thousands of applications to sort through. Some are faster than others. Some are slower than others. But don’t fret. This is just the way the game works. What’s the old proverb from the military… “hurry up and wait”
You need to wait for all of the financial offers to come in from the schools you or your student applied to. Then you need to take your time to compare those offers. Then you need to formulate your appeals back to those colleges (negotiate) if appropriate. It is very likely you will not actually pick a college until April or sometimes as late as May.
Now in the meantime, you might want to consider putting down the housing deposits for any schools you or your student is exceptionally interested in. Housing deposits are often non-refundable, so you have to be willing to give those up if you decide on a better offer at a different school. But at least putting down a housing deposit will give many students comfort in the face of risking the dreaded “temp-housing”.



